it’s bad for everyone.

  • hahafuck [they/them]
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    1 year ago

    Well touché but as a bisexual I am allowed to erasure myself and you are actually doing bi erasure if you don't agree with everything I say and find me cute

      • hahafuck [they/them]
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        1 year ago

        Why is it bad advice? What bad things will happen if you go on a gay date and it's a flop? What bad things will happen if it isn't a flop and you arrange a second? What bad things will happen if that one goes well and you share a kiss? What bad things will happen if you go home together and put on a TV show you've both seen before? Where does a bad thing enter the mix unless it is flowing into it from your eyes?

        Truthfully, awkwardness heartbreak is a good answer to any of the above. But that is a part of any dating. Just as with dating anyone, if you start slow and communicate your feelings freely there is no reason for anyone to get hurt. And plenty of people get even into their 30s or 40s convinced they are straight until they meet the right person and click with them. I'm just saying keep an open mind and don't live in fear

            • Redbolshevik2 [he/him]
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              1 year ago

              You think straight people should just get over themselves and have sex with people of a gender they're not attracted to. Since our sexuality is something to be discarded, why isn't yours?