How do you feel when a guy is kind of clingy and possesive? I'm the jealous type and I get suspicious and anxious women im dating or want to date don't message or text me back right away.

I often wonder if I have some type of borderline personality disorder, im so immediately afraid of abandonment. Like immediately I assume the worst if I'm not messaged or texted back right away.

Erroneous and somewhat misogynistic thought often says that women are the ones who are clingy, im here to tell you this is not the case lol. I'm just as clingy and workable moreso than any women I've me

I've gotten some good advice in other threads I've made, but I'll be more specific here.

  • MerryChristmas [any]
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    2 years ago

    I skip the 400 texts part. If they don't answer the phone I follow up with a text like:

    "Hey, this is merry, just calling about _______! Get up with me when you can."

    I stopped texting out of boredom because I hate how it interrupts the flow of the conversation.