Apparently the question asked was: "What do I do if my girlfriend is dumb?"
My jaw dropped multiple times reading this. Just holy shit, dude. I felt like the only way to regain any sanity afterwards was to share it here to let Hexbear roast this loser.
They feel shame all right but typically can't process or accept guilt for specific things. A lot of their conformity seeking among fellow creeps is to try to escape feelings of shame.
As for love; well... they may have a definition of it that is so alien and horrifying that it's for the best if they don't get what they want. :kombucha-disgust: