I see videos of Crowder types asking randos on the street to do it, and of course, they always stutter and stumble their way around what it is (if they're well intentioned - of course lots just say the usual man = penis and woman = vagina answer.)

Most of the people that get caught out are just well intentioned people whose philosophy on questions like this is 'who the fuck cares' (which is valid).

However, I'd rather not be caught out. Usually I try to immediately split it into sex Vs gender by just asking them to clarify - "what is a woman according to sex or what is a woman according to gender" and then I try to go from there.

What's a good line to trot out in answer to stuff like this? It would be nice if it could become almost a set phrase answer so it could catch on easily.

    • FloridaBoi [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      Depending on context but

      someone who won’t fuck you

      Might be good if they’re harassing you. You could also lure them into inane details and tangents so they don’t get to harass others but you might suffer psychic damage and end up on a YouTube video. These people tend to be trained or have experience dealing with hecklers.