Steely_Gaige [none/use name] to menby • 4 years ago

Is there anyone worse than dad's obsessed with their daughter's chastity?

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Is there anyone worse than dad's obsessed with their daughter's chastity?

Steely_Gaige [none/use name] to menby • 4 years ago

I looked into Purity Balls and shit, and what the actual fuck? Is this a product of toxic masculinity? Why has no one stopped this?

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Amorphous [any]
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4 years ago
Just wait till you meet a girl named Chastity

That one was always a lil weird for me

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- vertexarray [any]
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  4 years ago
  Naming my daughter chastity for the irony of it
  
  Then getting a second layer of irony when she grows up to be ace
  
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