• Abraxiel
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    1 year ago

    What no aftercare does to a motherfucker.

    Kinda seriously though, without the system of care and communication around it, power play and rough sex can be pretty harmful and if someone doesn't want to take the effort to do that care, yeah maybe they do have something going on.

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    • AbbysMuscles [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      Shit, my partner and I need proper aftercare just after normal, loving sex. Going without after rougher stuff sounds miserable

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        1 year ago

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    • kristina [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      my bf and i are very in tune at this point, he aftercares the fuck out of me and it helps with my ptsd so much. without my bf i dont know where id be :left-unity-4:

      he sometimes brings me chocolate and feeds it to me... idk if anyone knows this but chewing can help with post sex ptsd symptoms. he sometimes catches my ptsd before i do, i love him so much

      • Abraxiel
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        1 year ago

        Huh, makes sense though. A lot of people chew gum to help with nerves. Something about doing the action of eating associating with being safe?

        • kristina [she/her]
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          1 year ago

          Yeah it was floated in my support group and it worked wonders for me

      • SaniFlush [any, any]
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        1 year ago

        There are times where you just need a glass of chilled herbal tea...