Yeah, sorry, I'm a :freeze-gamer: please forgive me, it's my biggest lib flaw. :deeper-sadness:
I don't want to spend more then like $70 so please don't recommend the Xbox Elite controller or anything.
It's mostly for emulation but I do play Dark Souls and Monster Hunter on occasion so it needs to be somewhat responsive.
This is what I use, and like. It has a decent D-Pad, in a good location. I can also easily use it on my Switch.