AMAB and still living as a guy... not on HRT or anything yet. To answer your first question: pretty much never. I never talk to my male friends about my problems, honestly for a long time I didn't have much to talk about. If I did talk to someone about my problems they pretty much have to be female. Not sure why, but I just don't feel emotionally comfortable with men. Actually, I have one friend who ill talk to about my feelings, and I've gotten support from them, but even then I think maybe I've had one deep talk with him. It just doesn't happen.