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  • Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]
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    1 year ago

    Everyone always claims to hate drama but the reality is that drama is slop. The question is whether you have the self-awareness to identify when you are stirring the pot and the self-control to keep yourself in check once you're aware of it, and imo people who can't admit to finding it entertaining are the ones least likely to possess that self-awareness.

    The #1 source of struggle sessions is and will always be boredom.

    • GaveUp [she/her]
      hexagon
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      1 year ago

      I feel like the people participating are on average not enjoying it

      Shamelessly admitting that I love opening a thread for the first time with 100+ comments of dumb slop

      • Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]
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        1 year ago

        They may not be enjoying it, but their brains would rather be angry than bored. Brains hate boredom more than anything in the world. Anger, sadness, loneliness, frustration, hatred - brains prefer any of them over sitting around with nothing to think about.

    • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]
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      1 year ago

      I also think people here just don't like each other. Not active hatred but more of a this-person-is-cool-in-small-doses-but-drives-me-fucking-mad-if-I'm-stuck-with-them-for-over-5-hour way. And I say this as someone who has been caught up in their fair share of struggle sessions. Do people really care about outdoor cats or stacking rocks or bidets or is this just cover for them to shit on other people who they don't like? And this is not even considering certain segments of this website who do actively hate each other (vegans vs carnists).

      Edit: Looks at a bunch of soon-to-be-deleted comments. Yep, this is 100% proving my point.

    • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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      1 year ago

      Everyone always claims to hate drama

      I don't recall anyone expressing that opinion here.

      • UlyssesT
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        15 days ago

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