people don't hear that someone is married and go 'oh cool do you like sucking your husband's dick?'
At my job we have Monday morning stand ups about all the sex we have recently had.
Is this not normal?
Same type of people who make up sex ed in high schools to literally be people coming in and fucking in front of kids in their fever dream to get mad at.
watching monty python's meaning of life and contracting permanent brainworms
forgetting to call someone by their pronouns, just do better next time
not even trying to remember, or doing it on purpose
No it's not fair game to go around asking people about their sex life unprompted. This is different from them willingly talking about their sex lives with other willing conversants.
The fuck is wrong with these people
All of these people are the least-funny miserable husks. They wouldn't be making jokes even if they felt they could.