i think this site is more sex-moralist than most left spaces tbh. idk what the solution is. might involve re-opening /c/dating, which i think would probably have catastrophic effects on the active user numbers.
If you think that's moralist, just remember that Lemmygrad has a community named "Are the Straights Ok?", where the striaghts, of course, say the most batshit things.
Edit: I know its funny, but its still a bit moralist, dontcha think?
but I still don't know why you'd ever ask internet strangers for relationship advice.
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There is a huge body of literature about that. It is good when people ask. The discussion if hexbear is a good place for that is another one.
If you look into BBS (old internet sites in the 90s) you will find a ton of LGBTQ* people asking strangers for "relationship advice", like: "Is it normal to get horny as dude when I think about my dude best friend?". All in all the thread feels a bit US sex moral centric.
there is no problem with them posting their query here because this is a niche internet site like reddit and 4chan and should be nothing more than that as it allows freedom of thought and exploration of rare weirdness. Taking oneself too seriously is one of the many cancers killing the internet
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i think this site is more sex-moralist than most left spaces tbh. idk what the solution is. might involve re-opening /c/dating, which i think would probably have catastrophic effects on the active user numbers.
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The volcel police while bastards are an important part of keeping this site from getting weird and smelling funny
Didn't c/dating last less than 24 hours last time?
oh, yea, it would be an awful idea.
What happened? That’s impressively quick to get closed.
Really nothing, it was only ever opened to be closed as a weird bit about how we couldn't handle it.
That’s probably the most on brand answer possible.
If you think that's moralist, just remember that Lemmygrad has a community named "Are the Straights Ok?", where the striaghts, of course, say the most batshit things.
Edit: I know its funny, but its still a bit moralist, dontcha think?
that's fine. that's just funny.
why?
get some of y'all laid
ok please do
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They're at the stage where they're asking strangers on the internet for advice, it's definitely already weird with whoever they're crushing on
Maybe that's a bit mean, but I still don't know why you'd ever ask internet strangers for relationship advice.
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There is a huge body of literature about that. It is good when people ask. The discussion if hexbear is a good place for that is another one.
If you look into BBS (old internet sites in the 90s) you will find a ton of LGBTQ* people asking strangers for "relationship advice", like: "Is it normal to get horny as dude when I think about my dude best friend?". All in all the thread feels a bit US sex moral centric.
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there is no problem with them posting their query here because this is a niche internet site like reddit and 4chan and should be nothing more than that as it allows freedom of thought and exploration of rare weirdness. Taking oneself too seriously is one of the many cancers killing the internet
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I like this sequence of revelations. "That's fucked up" -> "okay it's not fucked up but it's cringe" -> "maybe cringe is okay"
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