And the “scare people away” thing is usually something painfully innocuous like me moving my appendages in a quirky way or being too passionate about something that I find interesting
Where tf are you all irl?
And the “scare people away” thing is usually something painfully innocuous like me moving my appendages in a quirky way or being too passionate about something that I find interesting
Where tf are you all irl?
Having relationships IRL is substantially harder than online. Even if the world weren't atomized, it still takes upkeep, attention, consideration of their feelings, communication, and vulnerability. Relationships develop and you might have irreconcilable differences and losing people hurts really fucking bad.
All this to say that you might not like me IRL. I'm not good at this shit. I'm just winging it. Some people are superficial assholes who don't know the first thing about anything and other people might perceive flaws and multiply them by 10,000 because they're afraid of having it be an annoyance in the long term. You can't know what they're thinking