• DesertComrade [he/him]
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    6 days ago

    A lot of these right wing freaks wouldn't be so sexist if they they talked to a woman irl once and while. Also politely asking someone out and then telling them exactly what you want probably beats the clusterfuck that is modern dating.

    • TemutheeChallahmet [none/use name]
      hexagon
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      6 days ago

      The first step is teaching them to want something realistic, informed by what they feel deep down, and not dehumanizing so they can actually "wear it on their sleeve" when approaching a woman rather than feeling like it's a secret shame they have to insidiously spring on the woman at the moment her guard is down.

      • DesertComrade [he/him]
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        6 days ago

        You are right But I believe talking to real women will help them have realistic expectations. Or real people in general The Internet is a very toxic place.

        • TemutheeChallahmet [none/use name]
          hexagon
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          6 days ago

          Yeah I think people retreat to the internet to halt their trial and error process of learning how to court and be told it's okay to keep halting

    • ultraviolet [she/her]
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      6 days ago

      There's nothing wrong with just making friendly conversation, but you should not ask out random service workers because they have to be polite to the customer and it puts them in a weird spot if some stranger just asks them on a date.

      • DesertComrade [he/him]
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        5 days ago

        Sure asking out anyone while they are on the clock requires a degree of social nuance they don't have It's gonna be like this viral clip of kai cenat and Kevin hart But as long as they interact with people in real life, they will start learning from their mistakes.