I'm 27 personally, and haven't been in any sort of romantic relationship or even kissed on the lips.

Now I'm at the point where I wanna wait til' I have my own place before I make any serious attempt at it, cuz I don't want to be judged for still living at home (Don't have a high enough income to move out).

I feel like once I seriously try though, I'll find someone eventually. I at least have that much confidence and self-esteem to know that I'm not unfuckable or anything like that.

    • Mitski [she/her,they/them]
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      4 years ago

      that or renting an airbnb or hotel room for a night if you want somewhere with more space and privacy. important to keep in mind if you get caught some states will require to register you as a sex offender.

      • Vayeate [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        i dated a girl once when i was traveling and staying with a friend. i didn't want to drag some girl back to my friends place to bone her so i suggested we get a hotel. she thought it was too sleezy so we never actually boned, she super wanted to though but apparently a hotel was like a weird deal breaker for her

        but yes generally speaking it's a good strategy

      • Vayeate [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        i personally chose not to bang in the back of the station wagon for that exact reason. we banged later that night at my place but i wasnt really into it so we just became friends