I'm 27 personally, and haven't been in any sort of romantic relationship or even kissed on the lips.

Now I'm at the point where I wanna wait til' I have my own place before I make any serious attempt at it, cuz I don't want to be judged for still living at home (Don't have a high enough income to move out).

I feel like once I seriously try though, I'll find someone eventually. I at least have that much confidence and self-esteem to know that I'm not unfuckable or anything like that.

  • HntrKllr [he/him]
    2·
    4 years ago

    Don't be ashamed of an escort my dude. It's how I lost my virginity around the time of my 21st birthday. I fully support going that route if you're nervous of the traditional route of going to a bar and talking to someone. Id check the sitePrivateDelights, r/sexworkers recommends browsing this site as a starting point. I used that subreddit to find my way around when I was hiring an escort

      • HntrKllr [he/him]
        2·
        4 years ago

        Ah gotcha. I just wanted to offer up the idea and reaffirm going with a sexworker is valid. But yeah it's certainly not for everyone. I haven't returned to a sexworker since my first 2 times. Not because of my experiences not be good but because of those experiences it affirm my belief that sex is a cool activity but not the crazy mind blowing euphoric experience society makes it out to ve. But maybe I'm asexual-lite, considering I went another 2 years after that not having sex again and now it'll be at 1 year in October once again since my last time 🤣