I've been away long enough that I noticed this "howdy" side to the site and decided there was no better place to visit first. ralsei-wave

I've lived just about all of my life in California and have worked as an educator, along with numerous and varied proletarian jobs with varying amounts of precarity. While some seemed to have liked it there, even thrived there, I hated it there. Just being in the teachers' lounge, or for that matter existing in public, seemed to be an open invitation to be involuntarily exposed to the worst of "hustlegrind" and "startup" culture. It may have been because of the specific area I was in (if you know Mountain View to Palo Alto to maybe Sacramento, you'll get what I mean), but these intrusive interactions, where a stranger could and would (if you look passably us-foreign-policy perhaps) get propositioned to "get in on the ground floor" with some grift or another, were bleakly common. Similarly, because of the sort of painfully privileged yet socially malnourished environment, just about nothing was discussed by my fellow faculty or other people I associated with except the pop cultural monoliths of the time, which I had to absorb via cultural osmosis in the worst way. Anticipating grading papers for the next few hours didn't get any easier when "DAE LE RED WEDDING?!" and "DAE LE SHAME, SHAME?!" was all anyone around me wanted to talk about, unless they were discussing some investment or how "epic" (yes, that old stale word remained in vogue way after its expiration date) someone's new Tesla was.

soypoint-1 my-hero awooga libertarian-alert hypersus soypoint-2 debord-tired

That's why I risked everything, cashed in my retirement fund early, and with eyes forward to becoming a father and finding a better place for my family, I moved to the Atlantic northeast to start an agricultural project that I intend to expand beyond sustainability into a communal project curry-space . It's hard work, and of course it's hard work, and it's still a work in progress. For OpSec reasions I don't want to get into too many details there except to say that it's all a work in progress and it's difficult, but rewarding. touch-grass .

I like it here. I like it here quite a bit. There's funny people, weird people, even scary people here and there around me, but I haven't had a single conversation that I would qualify as "bazinga" since I arrived. I haven't seen a single ZYBERTRUKKK either, except pictures of them getting mocked on the internet. billionaire-tears . I don't know if it's just the area I now live in or if it's a larger cultural shift, but as far as I can tell there's no more pop cultural monoliths that I had to be force-fed just by being around hogs gobbling up the hog slop, being it "historically accurate" or "satirical" or whatever. morshupls

I bring that up because I have no great interest in waddling into the slop anymore, to argue about it or against it for that matter, largely because I have not had to for almost a year now, and that makes a huge difference. sweat

I still set aside time to write when I can, and my next novel project is nearing the completion of its first draft. For those curious about that, there's no mecha this time (THIS TIME cyber-lenin ), and it's a more contemporary setting with only some slight background science fiction elements. I may share more details about that in an upcoming post if there's interest.

I hope you and yours are well, comrades. avoheart

EDIT: I accidentally said "there's mecha this time" instead of "there's no mecha this time" and corrected that immediately. sicko-wistful

  • 12022081631 [he/him]
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    1 month ago

    im sorry but you will have to reapply for your old position

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      1 month ago

      im sorry buy you will have to reapply for your old position

      What if I don't want it after my toxic treat fandom detox? nyet

  • FourteenEyes [he/him]
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    1 month ago

    Everyone missed you so much there were multiple threads about you

    I'm serious go look

    Anyways thanks for finally killing Kissinger and welcome back

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      1 month ago

      Anyways thanks for finally killing Kissinger and welcome back

      side-eye-1 side-eye-2

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      1 month ago

      I'm serious go look

      I'm not sure I want to, considering my rent-free status with some people.

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  • gramxi [they/them]
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    1 month ago

    start an agricultural project that I intend to expand beyond sustainability into a communal project

    you moved to get away from hustle and grindset yet you are hustling and grinding. Curious.

  • BelieveRevolt [he/him]
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    1 month ago

    How the hell did you manage to come back right after there was a thread about you with hundreds of comments? hypersus michael-laugh

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      1 month ago

      I took a peek after someone told me about that.

      dead-dove-1

      One peek was enough.

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        • UlyssesT [he/him]
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          1 month ago

          I don't know why it got so much attention

          I have a good guess. rent-free

          Anyhow, I better head out again. I'm already running late to bed for stuff I have to get up early for. sweat

      • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]
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        1 month ago

        That was me joking. I'm glad I edited out that line because I don't want to give the false impression that I somehow know UlyssesT irl lol

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      deleted by creator

  • UlyssesT [he/him]
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    1 month ago

    I wanted to thank you all for the warm welcome back. I have to be off for now, but I definitely missed it here and I will return again soon. logout

  • kristina [she/her]
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    1 month ago

    the trans community is bigger and better now and will never stop posting

    Idk if you saw the polls but about half the site is trans and about 66% are queer

    you can find all the trans related happenings here : https://hexbear.net/post/3016455

    we also now have 30 mods + 15 supportive admins on traa making our space likely the most effectively policed militia'd and transphobe-free & large public facing trans spot on the internet very-smart

    the trans mega suddenly got very big and averages 2000-3000 comments each week and we have a public chat that gets at least a thousand each day. ive also been working on building connections to the wider trans community so more people know about us

      • SnowySkyes [she/her]
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        1 month ago

        Thanks, but it was just a minor thing I do. I don't deserve any praise for such a simple task

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      1 month ago

      bridget-smug Well done! One of the first things I noticed upon my return is that that the number of Bridget emojis has only expanded to mark the unstoppable and glorious cultural revolution across Hexbear. bridget-yoyo-walk

      • Awoo [she/her]
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        1 month ago

        Everyone determined that it was you who killed him when he died lol

        • UlyssesT [he/him]
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          1 month ago

          Well, when my third book launched and I even arranged a megathread to talk about it, Elizabeth II died roughly at the same time, so it's some kind of weird energy around me sometimes. hahaha

          • FunkyStuff [he/him]
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            1 month ago

            I need you to make a big announcement on election day, it's the only way we get the year of the 4 presidents.

            • UlyssesT [he/him]
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              1 month ago

              the year of the 4 presidents

              That sounds like the Three Banners War in Elder Scrolls Online, only even more ridiculous and with even more noobs griefing each other in the imperial capital.

              Show

              • Wertheimer [any]
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                1 month ago

                https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Year_of_the_Four_Emperors

        • UlyssesT [he/him]
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          1 month ago

          I better save my potential logout powers for when it really matters... which sucks because I have errands to attend to in less than an hour. this-is-fine

      • BeamBrain [he/him]
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        1 month ago

        It all started here.

        Welcome back, by the way! Glad to hear you're doing well Care-Comrade

  • ElHexo
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    1 month ago

    deleted by creator

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      1 month ago

      The saddest Star Citizen news I have to report is that last I checked, nothing much was happening with it, not even silly stuff, and it still tends to top its old revenue records regularly. brrrrrrrrrrrr

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      1 month ago

      Nice to see you, too!

      I look forward to our next struggle session about subjective experiences or whatnot. approaching-1 approaching-2