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        • MrsPacMan [none/use name]
          14·
          4 years ago

          discord didn't fail. the admin team did.

          you can reach out to them if you actually try

            • MrsPacMan [none/use name]
              19·
              4 years ago

              You don't need to be a discord admin to reach out. If you really cared you could do that bare minimum, atleast.

              • FiresideHats [none/use name]
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                4 years ago

                Earlier you said "it's not my responsibility" to talk to this mod who is trans and working hard to make things better about how to do that

                Now you're saying it's this mods responsibility to go on Discord, which she mentioned repeatedly she doesn't use because it often induces dysphoria, and if she doesn't it means she doesn't really care about building a good space for trans and nonbinary people*

                Hopefully you see that on a person to person level that's pretty mean.

                It seems like you're saying you and your group are happy to stay on the discord and don't really care either way about being on Lemmy. I'm not sure if that's accurate but it's my impression.

                • MrsPacMan [none/use name]
                  15·
                  4 years ago

                  you're right. we're all mean cunts and we'll stay on discord. sorry for thinking yall wanted our participation, I'll fuck back off.

                  • FiresideHats [none/use name]
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                    4 years ago

                    You paraphrasing my post (which specifically only described your words/actions as mean) into a general insult with a really harsh and harmful gendered word is just another example of so much bad faith engagement.

                    I can't even remember the last time I've seen the word cunt outside of like 4chan

                • MrsPacMan [none/use name]
                  15·
                  4 years ago

                  That doesn't stop you from reaching out to them instead of urging them to come into this damage control thread where they'll continue to be ignored.