• marx_mentat [he/him, comrade/them]
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      1 year ago

      Thank you so much for showing me that not every liberal I meet here will be ignorant and self-righteous. I can no longer say that has been the totality of my experience with them. I now have hope that my next encounter will be just as positive as this one was.

            • Awoo [she/her]
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              1 year ago

              Does my username make me look like a dude to you? Why are liberals so fucking awful? It's only ever you. Nobody in the left does this.

                • AntiOutsideAktion [he/him]
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                  1 year ago

                  Go fucking fuck yourself you fucking piece of shit. Talking about other people's sOcIaL uNdeRsTandIng while you're fucking misgendering people AND JUSTIFYING IT AS IF YOU'RE A FUCKING VICTIM once you're called on it. You're rancid scum and I hope we get fucking defederated so we don't have to deal with filth like you.

                • Awoo [she/her]
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                  1 year ago

                  My lack of social understanding? Gender neutral?

                  I have to smash through the wall like Hbomberguy right now

                  Show
                  "DO YOU FUCK DUDES? AnomalousBit?"

                  Do you go around telling other people that you fuck dudes? What do other people assume you mean when you say that you fuck dudes?

                  You could have just been like "Yeah you're right, sorry I didn't mean to misgender you." but instead you doubled down on being a transphobic dickhead and literally proved my point about liberals being shitbags in the process.

                • HornyOnMain
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                  1 year ago

                  She literally has her pronouns in her display name mf, it's not that hard

                • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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                  1 year ago

                  Maybe if you lived in any of the countries you disparage all day long

                  Most of the users on Hexbear are American and a decent number of the remainder are Brits and Aussies. Our criticisms do not come from having never received the privilege of witnessing these countries being shit first-hand, as much as you might like to pretend it's only those dirty foreigners not understanding your national glory.

                • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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                  1 year ago

                  I don't know a single trans person that views dude as a gender neutral term, the only people spouting that nonsense are transphobic cis dudes like you who make up excuses to misgender and harass us. Go die in a house fire, reactionary cissie shit.

                  • commiewithoutorgans [he/him, comrade/them]
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                    1 year ago

                    Real talk from a very trans-supportive communist: is this universal? I definitely grew up in a conservative environment but definitely was under the impression that I and the trans people I am close to all thought dude was a term of endearment when used amongst friends, including women and enbys. I likely overuse the term from thinking I would be a skater after playing Tony hawk's pro skater and being into hiking/climbing/camping culture, but is this a universal thing among trans people you know?

                    Not defending the other person, libs very often hide behind the argument once called out, and I'd never call you "dude," or pretty much anyone not my direct friend, but I just wanna make sure I'm not hurting people unnecessarily without knowing it. Maybe it's the "being friends" part that makes the difference, and I hope so. Otherwise I got some trans-comrades to apologize to

                    Adding here after thinking more, I guess I usually use it to refer to a non-specific thing, like saying "ah dude, that's cool" and shit like that. Like saying "oh man." Is this related??? Need some help here lol

                • Unmarketable Plushie@pawb.social
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                  1 year ago

                  "Dude" can be gender neutral but given the context of it in your response it really fucking looks like a microaggression against her for being trans

        • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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          1 year ago

          Look, you started hot in this thread but tired after a few comments. They adjusted, you didn't, and you got rocked; it happens. Hit the showers and we'll get after it early tomorrow with some film.

    • muddi [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      Is there a base case or do the layers of irony go on to infinity?

      Person: says something

      Another person: this other person has no nuance

      Yet another person: this other person has no nuance, ironically

      Yet another person: this other person has no nuance, ironically

      (ad infinitum)

      Maybe this is just dialectics, although a little snarky