She likes cooking and I hate cooking. She’s sort of into the cottagecore aesthetic. Am I doing a misogyny

  • FlannelHero [none/use name]
    ·
    4 years ago

    On the flip flop, I do all the cooking and kitchen shit and my wife does all the cleaning (she finds it therapeutic and I suck at basically all cleaning save for the grimy shit like snaking the tub and sink drain). We do the laundry together as the middle ground. Just play to your strengths and what skills you have; it’s not that one skill is better or worse or harder or easier (again, I fucking hate cleaning because I’m terrible at it) it’s just how you guys divide your labor. As long as you don’t think she’s lesser for the role she plays then you’re all set. Mutual gratitude does wonders for a relationship.