Hi Chapos throwaway for obvious reasons.

I’ve managed to buy an apartment, two bedrooms. I live in it, but I rent the other room out. Is it unethical for me to hide that I’m the owner?

I don’t really lie-lie, like if I’m asked straight up I’ll answer, but I’ll avoid it if possible.

It’s mostly because it creates an odd power dynamic and I’d rather have a flatmate than a tenant if that makes sense.

Reason I bought is I don’t want to deal with landlords, obviously.

Do I get the wall?

  • Hexboare [they/them]
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    2 months ago

    I think it's worse because the landlord is going to be unwittingly surveilling the tenant whenever they're there. Like he can just boot them if they do something he doesn't enjoy, whereas there's a lot more leeway (rightly and wrongly) with a roommate that you can't just kick out.

    • GuiltyConscience [he/him]
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      2 months ago

      Exactly. That’s not a good vibe, and no amount of ‘just trust me bro’ gets rid of it. (Especially if you proactively bring it up “just so you know, I can make you homeless but dw”.)