You are misunderstanding. A cis person who is uncomfortable with their gender identity also does not have to use a pronoun. I only believe you should be encouraged- not forced to use a pronoun if you are secure in your gender identity and want it. Not using pronouns does not make you trans or cis- pronouns are a gender signifier not in themselves a gender identity. NB people use she/they or he/they and that doesn't make them cis for example.