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        • No_Values [none/use name]
          2·
          4 years ago

          but can’t i just leave it blank? or is there an argument against that?

            • No_Values [none/use name]
              1·
              4 years ago

              thanks, I don't want to put anyone out, but that would be the most comfortable for me

          • Speaker [e/em/eir]
            6·
            4 years ago

            A bunch of comrades asked you to click a button on a website to be nice. What more motivation do you need?

            • Kitten_Phiblyt [none/use name]
              7·
              4 years ago

              A bunch of assholes demanded that people select pronouns in spite of the fact not everyone is comfortable in the same manner with that topic.

              More pronoun options is great, forcing people to conform is not.

              • Speaker [e/em/eir]
                8·
                4 years ago

                You're literally on a communist forum, lol.

                  • Speaker [e/em/eir]
                    5·
                    4 years ago

                    Fed poor people, prevented arrests and evictions, did gay stuff. Your turn.

          • Redcloak [none/use name]
            4·
            4 years ago

            Do whatever you want with your own profile. You shouldn't have to feel pressured to present yourself anyway that you're not comfortable with.

            • Kitten_Phiblyt [none/use name]
              5·
              4 years ago

              It's a two way street. Remember people's pronouns when you can, don't shove them down peoples throats when they forget and definitely don't force other people to pick their pronouns unless they want to.

            • Redcloak [none/use name]
              6·
              4 years ago

              It shouldn't be this hard to respect someone's decision for how they want to present themselves.

                • Gay_Wrath [fae/faer]
                  6·
                  4 years ago

                  Not having a pronoun is gonna make people think ur a cis dude, it won't communicate "not having an identifier". if that's what how you want people to perceive of you, I'd recommend picking "none". just some friendly advice from someone who has been on the internet a long time and gotten misgendered a lot.

                  • No_Values [none/use name]
                    1·
                    4 years ago

                    Thanks for the response, but honestly not having anything would make me the most comfortable, but if it's it's going to put people out I'll pick one

      • Kitten_Phiblyt [none/use name]
        4·
        4 years ago

        Exactly. You should be under no pressure to select your own pronouns. Anyone who is upset about that isnt an ally.

        • Speaker [e/em/eir]
          2·
          4 years ago

          http://www.indigenousaction.org/accomplices-not-allies-abolishing-the-ally-industrial-complex/