that makes sense. The reason why I was curious on why mutability might make more sense is because there very well could be alot of people who at one point were actually straight and became heteroflexible/bi/gay etc later on. usually i hear this written off that they were always some form of LGBT and just repressed it due to pressure. but that feels reductive and while likely very true for some not so much for others. Thanks for your take i like getting new perspectives and i always appreciate effort posts :)