I find it very disturbing, that the "ideal female body" looks like a 14 year old.

  • MarxistHedonism [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    This argument really irritates me tbh.

    A lot of girls get body hair way before being an adult. I had pubic hair when I was 9 and armpit and leg hair well before that.

    Like if you can’t tell you’re looking at an adults naked body because they wax idk what to tell you.

    Even if it’s caused by misogyny and patriarchy, at the end of the day, there are women who are more comfortable removing their hair and I don’t think it’s productive to shame them for being bad feminists or consumers.

    You should not tell your partner to either shave or not shave and instead tell them you prefer them to do what makes them comfortable.

    • Baader [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Fair point. Since shaving is the norm I felt like people need encouragement not to shave. But yeah do as you like.

      I don't want to shame anybody that shaves. I'd rather ask for the intention behind it and if the reason is "society" You can change. You don't have to anyway