I once stumbled across one of Dan Hentschel's YouTube shorts entitled "How to Get a Person With ADHD to Do Something" (massive CW if you search that up) and while I get that it was just a joke, I started tearing up and felt like an anxiety attack was coming on because it sounded so much like a conversation with my spouse.
In my experience, no. Even when they intellectually understand, they just expect you to "try harder" or "push through it".
I once stumbled across one of Dan Hentschel's YouTube shorts entitled "How to Get a Person With ADHD to Do Something" (massive CW if you search that up) and while I get that it was just a joke, I started tearing up and felt like an anxiety attack was coming on because it sounded so much like a conversation with my spouse.
Oof, 100%.