I told my friend I love her and wanted to kiss her again (we went on a date recently and we known each other for like 10 years)

I felt like the only responsible thing was to be honest and now I am losing my mind waiting to hear from her again.

  • Nakoichi [they/them]
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    9 hours ago

    In my defense she did tell me it lights up her day whenever I text her and that she wanted to be part of my life "no matter what" so I don't think that was an unreasonable thing to do on my part, its just that romance has always ended badly for me and I really really love this girl and I need someone to tell me its gonna be fine.

    Please help I need advice.

    • Verenata [none/use name]
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      3 hours ago

      Fingers crossed thats so brave!!

      Advice?

      Breathe, chill, roll a j, vibe 💅

      From the sounds of it you two are close and mean a lot to each other. You've said your peace and given her agency and choice. Cool beans.

      If she says no and she meant as a friend will you still stay friends?

      • Nakoichi [they/them]
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        3 hours ago

        she says no and she meant as a friend will you still stay friends?

        Definitely

        • Verenata [none/use name]
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          2 hours ago

          Yey!!!!! Awwwh rooting so hard for you

          tony-cheer

          Edit: to be a couple, I'm rooting for that. Not you being friends. Just to be very clear.

    • FunkyStuff [he/him]
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      9 hours ago

      From the information in this post it seems like you're fine, I don't think you crossed any inappropriate boundaries and it seems she's receptive. You'll be ok.

      • Nakoichi [they/them]
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        9 hours ago

        Thank you. It has been a while and the only two serious relationships I ever had ended badly and both times were mostly my fault. I'm not afraid of rejection I'm afraid of getting into another romantic relationship.

      • Nakoichi [they/them]
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        9 hours ago

        I'm not afraid of rejection I'm afraid of her wanting to be in a relationship lol.

        Rejection I can shrug off, it's falling in love again that terrifies me.

        • TraschcanOfIdeology [they/them, comrade/them]
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          6 hours ago

          This is going to be corny af, but falling in love is like a roller-coaster: it's supposed to be scary but exciting and crazy and it all happens so fast.

          Sending you the best vibes so you can enjoy the ride