No you've said exactly what my bf says and I am finding out how much fun I can have being in charge using my submissiveness i guess? It's all a big learning experience which is nice and I think it definitely feels more intimate than past relationships because of it.

Lmao its fine with me but I'm also not entirely sure on the rules lol.

Not without warning, but it feels pretty good to have a big sensation like that

Omfg I was mouthing of being a brat once and he without warning took the side of my face off and like waow....

I think my biggest hurdle is controlling someone's body, cos of my own experiences the idea of doing that to someone else is kinda road block for me atm if I think about it like this so I have to reframe it.