I'll start.
There really is no point to monogamy other than to feed one's ego and aspiring to have your own children over adopting is its own form of eugenics.
I'll start.
There really is no point to monogamy other than to feed one's ego and aspiring to have your own children over adopting is its own form of eugenics.
This was basically the topic of the shitty essay Bernie wrote in college that they tried to smear him with a few times.
Honestly though I think this is probably reasonable; our desires are affected by our social climate, I don't know why sex and kink would be exempt. That being said, having partaken in a good amount of light bdsm, its pretty fun when both partners are into it, regardless of what motivates it.