gender is socially constructed. saying that you prefer "natural born women" is exactly like saying you prefer people who weren't "born a criminal"
gender is socially constructed. saying that you prefer "natural born women" is exactly like saying you prefer people who weren't "born a criminal"
I'm not saying you literally said that, I'm talking about a whole family of ideas that stems from that belief.
cis and trans are made up categories that only exist because of the violence done to trans people. saying most people are cis us like saying most Americans are white - well, yeah, but the point is how that happened.
again: would you react to someone pointing out racism in your comments the same way? this site's fragility is something else.
I'm confused, I agree with you.
that's fine but to @gay's point, I'm addressing your internalized transphobia and asking you to work on it.
What is my internalized transphobia exactly? I don't get it.
Well, I'm kind of seeing you two bully this entire thread, even other trans people. There's a lot "if x then y" accusations you're making which is unfair. As you read the thread, clearly "y" is not what the person often if ever meant. It gives no faith to the person you're talking to, which in turn makes them obviously defensive. Which you pre-emptively attack them for.
When you talk to any human being, it's not acceptable to do these kinds of things. This isn't just a cis-fragility thing, this one is on you too.