gender is socially constructed. saying that you prefer "natural born women" is exactly like saying you prefer people who weren't "born a criminal"

  • the_river_cass [she/her]
    2·
    4 years ago

    and, because this site is so not-transphobic, it's the top voted reply in this thread :thonk:

    but make sure that when you call attention to it, you really take the time to take care of cis feelings - their egos are rather fragile.

    • soyboy [she/her]
      3·
      4 years ago

      not liking dick is transphobic

      hmmmmm, why could 3/4s of LGBT not like this statement? do you live under a rock or something?

        • soyboy [she/her]
          6·
          4 years ago

          because this shitshow of a thread is the age old "genital preferences are transphobic" bullshit. literally everything else can be changed by transition, but genitals kinda stay the same. some people still like to pretend genitals don't matter. spoiler alert: to pretty much every monosexual cis person they do

          • the_river_cass [she/her]
            3·
            4 years ago

            SRS is literally the oldest surgery we perform. wtf do genitals have to do with attraction to trans people?

              • the_river_cass [she/her]
                1·
                4 years ago
                1. cis people don't know how good srs is or isn't.
                2. srs still sucks for trans men but it's gotten decent for trans women over the years.
                3. apriori judgement of a whole category of people on the basis of a quality they may or may not possess is definitionally prejudicial. if you don't know whether you're attracted or not until you've looked at someone's genitals, that's one thing - assumptions about what their genitals look like is something else entirely.
      • gay [any]
        1·
        4 years ago

        Are you gonna bring out the "Gay means homosexual. And homosexual means same sex attracted, not gender" dogwhistle now?

        • soyboy [she/her]
          3·
          4 years ago

          no, attraction is based on your perception of another person, so gender is the only relevant thing there. but humans aren't blindly following their attractions and when they learn that your genitals don't fit their preference, they usually decide against daiting you.

          • gay [any]
            3·
            4 years ago

            I guess that one's too on the nose for Miss "I say slurs during vegan debates", huh.