That so much to be going through at once. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with all of this. I’m happy you have a companion and are able to enjoy your time with your kitty. I don’t know all the dynamics of what your mom did, but she could have been grooming your brothers friend and that’s predatory behavior and crossing a line with your brother that should never be crossed. You’re not a prude for not being cool with it
Are you seeing a therapist or any way you could see one? If you search around you maybe be able to find a clinic that would help if you don’t have healthcare. I know it’s helped me a ton. And I’m really good at being numb to my problems. But every time I get out of my session with my counselor I feel I little better and a little less numb to my life.
Yeah I see a therapist. I have for years. And he’s great, I feel like it took a long time to find a good one. Therapy has been affected by COVID but I’m learning to adapt. I just found out about my mom and about my ex this week so both are just things that I get an hour to talk about every week. Which is honestly something to be grateful for, especially now.
That so much to be going through at once. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with all of this. I’m happy you have a companion and are able to enjoy your time with your kitty. I don’t know all the dynamics of what your mom did, but she could have been grooming your brothers friend and that’s predatory behavior and crossing a line with your brother that should never be crossed. You’re not a prude for not being cool with it
Are you seeing a therapist or any way you could see one? If you search around you maybe be able to find a clinic that would help if you don’t have healthcare. I know it’s helped me a ton. And I’m really good at being numb to my problems. But every time I get out of my session with my counselor I feel I little better and a little less numb to my life.
Yeah I see a therapist. I have for years. And he’s great, I feel like it took a long time to find a good one. Therapy has been affected by COVID but I’m learning to adapt. I just found out about my mom and about my ex this week so both are just things that I get an hour to talk about every week. Which is honestly something to be grateful for, especially now.