I think i somewhat understand your position. Can't talk from my own experience, but this mirrors my queer roommates fear about a further four years of trump. (europeans, but they're very online). If the rnc is going to pull any culture-war shit it's gonna be targeted at queer people for sure, hell most of republican states actively moves to make life harder for lgbtq+ people.. So yeah, i understand why the lgbtq+ community if afraid of trump being reelected. And yes, it's probably privilege that i don't share the fear.

A slight comfort is, i don't think their gonna try their luck with roe v wade, only their more staunch bible-thumpers are serious about that, so they would get pushback from some of their own, and all the dems.