It wasn't super active, but there a few of us who participated in TransComrade69's book reading thingy. Maybe ask if the mods of /books could pin a post about a book you'd like to read and discuss, work out the details and what not.

It might be risky but if you feel the need to get out of the house and do some different type of work... if there are any close by "shit job" employers you might apply there specifically as a part time employee. Like a few shifts a week. Low stakes stocking shelves or working a register or mopping a floor or something. If it blows to hard, you can bail. Still might be able to do the coding/design work but have a few days a week where you get to completely shift your brain into a different gear.