You match with someone then you try to start a convo and they just fucking don't even try lol. Then it just ends up you asking questions and them answering in the most terse manner possible that stops the convo dead on its tracks. Then you add something to spice things up a bit and they say something like "haha true" and then there's nothing more you can say so you just ask another question. It feels like I'm moving crates. How does anyone navigate this shit lmao

  • MasterCombine [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    The first step is to delete Tinder and try Hinge and maybe Bumble instead.

    Tinder is the worst.

    • Pezevenk [he/him]
      hexagon
      ·
      4 years ago

      In my country there is like 5 people who use those.

      • MasterCombine [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        Oh, lol. I guess I shouldn’t have just assumed that you were American. Well...best of luck to you then.

        • Pezevenk [he/him]
          hexagon
          ·
          4 years ago

          There's another app some people use here but from what I have heard it is even worse (significantly so).

    • LibsEatPoop [any]
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      4 years ago

      why would hinge or bumble be different? they're basically just as popular now. like, whenever you see tumblr mentioned anywhere, you also see hinge and bumble. and maybe okcupid.

      • MasterCombine [he/him]
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        edit-2
        4 years ago

        Because I’ve had success on Hinge and Bumble, but not Tinder ¯_(ツ)_/¯

        The crowds using Hinge and Bumble are very different from the crowd using Tinder, at least in my experience. Especially Hinge.