Yes exactly, when you refer to men, that includes trans men. To say 'men' and then go 'but we don't mean trans men' is kinda transphobic as it excludes trans men from being men.

Why do they feel caught in the crossfire? Like I don’t think of myself as trash, anymore. In hindsight as a teen and very early twenties, I was a pretty shitty dude. But I have grown, and definitely pull my weight around the house. Meanwhile my father will call my mom to tell her he is hungry. I cook for my wife, clean diapers, do dishes, do chores.

Just be a good dude and don’t let these women angry at their shitty husbands or parents stop you from being a good person.