Hi chapo, How the fuck do you find work when you have major gaps in your resume?

Short story: I went through a long fucked up period dealing with addiction and mental health issues. I'm fairly okay now mentally/psychically. But I'm having a real hard time finding work. Last time I had a "real" job was over five years ago, also around the time I graduated college. But I have nothing to put on my resume since then. I have zero networking connects, no one to put as a reference.

I need a job real bad but I don't know what to do. With no experience and no connects I feel like no one wants to hire me, but I can't fulfill those requirements without finding work that I can't get. I fucking hate it.

I'm also dogshit at doing interviews and I don't know how to explain long work absences without freaking out employers. What can I do?

P.S. I don't wanna say where I live for privacy reasons but I do not live in America.

  • star_wraith [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    As someone else mentioned, I'd definitely avoid mentioning a sick grandma. If you stick with building PCs and photography (honestly, you could probably just mentioning building PCs), that should be good. Try and have as few "moving parts" in your story as possible.

    • SoyViking [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      I totally agree. Keep it simple when you lie. Elaborate lies fall apart easier.