I'm increasingly becoming unironically volcel. Every time I get horny, I simply deny my programming, firmly remind myself of my volcel oath, and do something more productive, haha. I haven't had sex in almost 9 months and lately I genuinely feel better about myself for it. There's no anxiety over sexually disappointing and no hollow feeling when contact inevitably fizzles out afterwards.

I feel like I have so many better things I could be doing than dating or chasing sex and in coming to that conclusion I've also stumbled my way into a sense of motivation and initiative I didn't know I had.

I'm curious if others have experienced something similar and are willing to discuss it. Anyone else unironically embracing their volcel oath? Lmfao

    • TransComrade69 [she/her,ze/hir]
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      4 years ago

      Definitely nothing wrong with that! I say do it, comrade! It's all just a lot of additional stress when I already have so much on my plate. Like, being a part of this project and actively pursuing ideas here and gearing up to be a part of PSL is so much more rewarding to me than the stress of going through the chit-chat phase with a random to maybe have mediocre sex and likely never talk again either way. I just find pursuing my interests and becoming more involved with organizing to be a lot more fulfilling. 😊