I'm increasingly becoming unironically volcel. Every time I get horny, I simply deny my programming, firmly remind myself of my volcel oath, and do something more productive, haha. I haven't had sex in almost 9 months and lately I genuinely feel better about myself for it. There's no anxiety over sexually disappointing and no hollow feeling when contact inevitably fizzles out afterwards.

I feel like I have so many better things I could be doing than dating or chasing sex and in coming to that conclusion I've also stumbled my way into a sense of motivation and initiative I didn't know I had.

I'm curious if others have experienced something similar and are willing to discuss it. Anyone else unironically embracing their volcel oath? Lmfao

  • Sandinband [any, comrade/them]
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    4 years ago

    I feel you on the lack of sex drive. My significant other thinks I'm not attracted to him anymore but I am, I just don't really crave sex anymore :/

    • MarxistHedonism [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      Yes, exactly.

      It’s not like I have a wandering eye. I don’t want to have sex with anyone, if I did, he’d be the first.