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minus-squareMaoTheLawn [any, any]hexbear5·4 years agowhat would your thoughts be about him seeing somebody else for the purpose of sex? link
minus-squareMarxistHedonism [she/her]hexbear6·4 years agoLogically I’m open to it but I’m afraid that it’s a door that you can’t close once it’s open and I can’t be sure how it would actually make me feel. I think I’d be more comfortable if it was a sex worker but I’m very scared to pull the trigger on letting it happen. link
minus-squareMaoTheLawn [any, any]hexbear4arrow-down1·4 years agoNothing wrong with having a sex worker over. Anyway, life's too short to worry about what MIGHT happen, but if you have the funds to do so I'd get a therapist first. link
what would your thoughts be about him seeing somebody else for the purpose of sex?
Logically I’m open to it but I’m afraid that it’s a door that you can’t close once it’s open and I can’t be sure how it would actually make me feel.
I think I’d be more comfortable if it was a sex worker but I’m very scared to pull the trigger on letting it happen.
Nothing wrong with having a sex worker over. Anyway, life's too short to worry about what MIGHT happen, but if you have the funds to do so I'd get a therapist first.