I'm increasingly becoming unironically volcel. Every time I get horny, I simply deny my programming, firmly remind myself of my volcel oath, and do something more productive, haha. I haven't had sex in almost 9 months and lately I genuinely feel better about myself for it. There's no anxiety over sexually disappointing and no hollow feeling when contact inevitably fizzles out afterwards.

I feel like I have so many better things I could be doing than dating or chasing sex and in coming to that conclusion I've also stumbled my way into a sense of motivation and initiative I didn't know I had.

I'm curious if others have experienced something similar and are willing to discuss it. Anyone else unironically embracing their volcel oath? Lmfao

  • MaoTheLawn [any, any]
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    4 years ago

    Doesn't seem worth the hassle. Last two hookups I had didn't respect my boundaries at all, and now when I think of sex I just feel bored and uncomfortable. Dating apps - most of the time the person is considerably uglier in real life. Can't be arsed with it.