The problem is that if you bring any of this up to people, they slander you as sex-negative, or even try to accuse you of wanting Sharia law because you might break the spell that abusers and rapists have over their victim. Convincing young, vulnerable people that they'll be rich/famous/loved/empowered if they choose to be porn stars or hookers, and that it's a bold, "mature" choice is a tale as old as time. We all rightly provide support for victims, but you're an asshole if you try to prevent people from being victimized in the future.