I usually get a new piercing (or tattoo when I can afford it) this time of year, but because of covid travel restrictions, it'll have to wait. Not complaining, just a bit bummed I won't make my annual daytrip with some friends to [nearby big city] and get stabbed. Anyone else put their body mod plans on-hold for 2020?

Probably related: I'm thinking about stretching my ears bigger. They're 16mm right now, but I'm thinking I'd be happier with them closer to 19-20mm...

  • Rem [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    I really like tattoos but I have this bizarre mental block where I'm so scared I'll regret getting it if it's not just perfect that I can't bring myself to pull the trigger. It's dumb and I know it'll look cool but I just can't push past it for some reason.

    Piercings on the other hand, super fun, got a few different ear spots, one for the septum, threw around the idea of getting a few more personal 👀 ones but Idk if that's me.

    • mine [she/her,comrade/them]
      hexagon
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      4 years ago

      definitely go for the personal ones if you like them. i have quite a few piercings and my favorites are all hidden from plain sight 👍

      • Rem [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        Hehehe maybe I will. Once covid is over I'll look into a place that can get it done and see how I feel about it.

    • mine [she/her,comrade/them]
      hexagon
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      4 years ago

      hell yeah, being able to feel magnetic fields sounds rad af honestly

      second puberty = unironically braver than the troops o7 i have a friend who has to black market her hrt, but it made her feel a lot better about it to think about it like body mod - much more empowering mental state.

        • mine [she/her,comrade/them]
          hexagon
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          4 years ago

          i want to be colorful and sparkly. no i do not have any money. yes i still want to be colorful and sparkly :blob-stabby:

    • Nagarjuna [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      I kind of like how intimate they can be. Like, a close friend or lover is holding you while gently and caringly hurting you over and over.

      Love my hand pokes.

  • concessaoprasorrir [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    i'm buzzing my head so i really really want to pierce my ear and use something like this , it's so small but to me it makes a huge difference for people with very short hairstyles

    i say that because i've shopped some to check, and it really surprised me how different i looked, it gave off an entirely different vibe

    never had an idea for a tattoo nor have i thought it would add much to my appearance tbh

    • mine [she/her,comrade/them]
      hexagon
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      4 years ago

      I feel the same way - every piercing adds something unique! And just bc others might think it's a small add, if it makes a big difference to you, then you should 100% go for it!

  • BigBoopPaul [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    raises hand in ignorance

    What's the difference in terminology between body modifications and general plastic surgery and/or gender reassignment surgery? Do they all fall under the same umbrella?

      • BigBoopPaul [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        I guess in the sense of a well-intentioned yokel: "Ah, you're post-op? Fan-fucking-tastic! I have some body mods, too!" proceeds to show off finger magnets and permanent eyeliner

  • DasKarlBarx [he/him,comrade/them]
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    4 years ago

    Have a few ear piercings and a shit ton of tattoos. Love the whole process of getting tattoos. The shops, the art, having to sit through it. It's great.

    • mine [she/her,comrade/them]
      hexagon
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      4 years ago

      saaaaame, it's such a nice way to spend an afternoon: lying in a tattoo parlor, talking shit with cool people, looking at all the art on the walls, enjoying the endorphin rush. trying to save up money for a chest piece atm, but it'll be a while.