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  • Wmill [they/them]
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    4 years ago

    Don't know what the etiquette for this so I never do it.

    • QuillQuote [they/them]
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      4 years ago

      The key is to only realize you don't know the etiquette for it after you've already sent the dm

      Shoutout to everyone I've dmed a non sequitur or seemingly random comment to and also sorry o7

      • Wmill [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        So I gotta be daring and apologetic. Can do the latter need to practice the former as I chacha slide in there.

        • QuillQuote [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          That strategy is responsible for some of my favorite things in my life, and also some of the biggest mistakes- which taught me some of my most important lessons.

          Idk, use this strategy with caution, it's really more of a cope for my neurodivergence than real advice but idunno

          I really struggle with social stuff so I just try to be as blatantly good faith as I can be in the hopes that if I fuck up it's clear it's from ignorance and brainworms not malice, and that I wanna learn. Otherwise, when I get in my head about stuff instead of just doing my best and being earnest, I just go in circles in my mind being critical until I'm paralyzed and post/ say/ do nothing because now I'm convinced I'd just fuck whatever it is up. I will always fuck up, but I'll also always strive to learn the lessons I can from that to make sure I don't fuck up the same way again

          sorry for the rant :sweat:

          • Wmill [they/them]
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            4 years ago

            Hey it's cool. Thanks for sharing even though it might have been tough. Some times I think when other people are confident that it's easy but it sounds like what I go through. Once again thanks again for sharing.

            • QuillQuote [they/them]
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              4 years ago

              Thanks for reading! I'm glad it helped in some way, and thanks for being supportive <3

          • LeninsLapCat [he/him]
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            4 years ago

            I've only met a few people who I truly believe were confident in themselves, everybody else was doing fake it till you make it. We love you though, and I like reading rants on this website :heart-sickle:

      • Wmill [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        Maybe, might be you from a bad future. That thing we planned but never did I say do it but wear protection. Helmet might work to be on the safe side.