• kilternkafuffle [any]
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    4 years ago

    It's an awkward experience unless you're A) clean and comfortable with yourself, B) into it in the moment. The most fun is also from reaching the prostate/A-spot, which is difficult to do, depending on finger-length and ass-anatomy.

    The only truly fascist approach to ass-play is if you're dildoing yourself on camera to prove you don't like it.

    • Rem [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      Any personal experience? I talk a big game in this thread but I had trouble with that aspect the only time I tried to do prostate play with a partner.

      • kilternkafuffle [any]
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        4 years ago

        Not very extensive experience, to be honest. But yeah, I've enjoyed it when my female partner did it to (male) me when the mood was right. It's easier to find the A-spot by yourself, but of course you can manage with communication/toys/gloves. But even without the prostate, the experience of being touched/penetrated is fun in itself - provided both people are into it, obviously.

        • Rem [she/her]
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          4 years ago

          Yeah I'm pretty sure I felt something in there, it was like a distinct spongy node, but he didn't feel the sort of pleasure we'd read about. It also felt like got further away from my finger if I pushed, which made it hard to do much with it other than sort of rub against it very gently.

          A-spot or not, can confirm he enjoyed the feeling of being invaded 😈

          • kilternkafuffle [any]
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            4 years ago

            Fun times. Yeah, it's not a very high ratio of pleasure to effort. The prostate is a pleasure enhancer, not a source of pleasure by itself. It can also make you lose the erection, even when worked correctly, which is confusing for all parties.

            • Rem [she/her]
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              4 years ago

              Hmm, will keep this all in mind for future prostate-equipped partners, thanks 😼

              I've heard legends of people being able to cum purely from prostate stim, but that might be rare, not sure if there's any way to train that or if you're just wired that way or not.

              • Ram_The_Manparts [he/him]
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                4 years ago

                I’ve heard legends of people being able to cum purely from prostate stim

                Can confirm, it's a thing

                • Rem [she/her]
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                  4 years ago

                  I have a deep desire to do this to someone one day. Please tell me your secrets 😶

                  • Ram_The_Manparts [he/him]
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                    4 years ago

                    No idea really, all I know is it works on me. That might not be the case for everyone, I dunno?

                    I will say though, if the person you are doing it to goes soft, don't let that stop you. I've never been hard while having a prostate orgasm. And yes, those orgasms still literally made me cum.

                    • Rem [she/her]
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                      4 years ago

                      Fair enough, appreciate it 👍🏼