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minus-squareanimist [they/them]hexbear16·4 years agoit really does work too. You don't need to be mad at yourself, just gently correct yourself when you catch it. once i started being gentle/mindful about correcting mistakes like that, i found it got a lot easier. link
minus-squarethe_river_cass [she/her]hexbear17·4 years agoyea being mad or blaming yourself will make other shit worse. this isn't about your worth as a human being, just making the world kinder for a bunch of people who really need it. link
it really does work too. You don't need to be mad at yourself, just gently correct yourself when you catch it.
once i started being gentle/mindful about correcting mistakes like that, i found it got a lot easier.
yea being mad or blaming yourself will make other shit worse. this isn't about your worth as a human being, just making the world kinder for a bunch of people who really need it.