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  • MarxistHedonism [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    Hysteria/hysterical - These are misogynist terms. Basically, the origin was that husbands who were annoyed with their wives would take them to the doctor who would diagnose them with Hysteria and the cures were often sexual assault or putting them in asylums.

    Female as a noun - Don’t call women females. It’s dehumanizing, especially when you see “men and females.” It’s also not inclusive since woman is associated with gender and female is more associated with sex.

    Articulate/well-spoken - Mostly when used to describe Black people. It’s the default compliment White people use for “one of the good ones” and implies that it’s exceptional for a black person to be articulate while also enforcing biases against AAVE.

    • LibsEatPoop2 [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      I've always heard "men and women" or "male and female"; it makes sense to use these terms rather than "men and females" or "males and women" which just sounds weird.

      And I'm a bit confused. I get the female and women argument, which implies that male and men are defaults. But your argument is different - female is associated with sex and not gender, thus being not-inclusive, but that would equally apply to men and male? Should we just stop using both, male and female, except when talking explicitly about sex?

      • lizbo [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        "Female" is used to describe the sex of animals in addition to humans, whereas "woman" refers to a female human. So "female" is quite literally dehumanizing. This is my take on it anyway.

      • fuckhaha [any,none/use name]
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        4 years ago

        There is an acceptable double standard when it comes to this topic but fwiw I also find male a little weird and clinical

      • MarxistHedonism [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        Should we stop using both, male and female, except when talking explicitly about sex?

        I say yes. Outside of medical studies, there’s really no reason to refer to people as males and females. I didn’t talk about it for men/males because I don’t think I’ve ever seen people refer to men as “males” the way I see it on a regular basis for women.

        When it comes to male/female as an adjective, we don’t really have a replacement yet although some people have started saying stuff like woman president or woman pilot. Like I would still say female doctor if I was referring to a trans woman who was a doctor, but I guess ideally we’d have a better word.