Found it through this: https://www.dailydot.com/debug/proud-boys-proud-girls-parler/ And this: https://www.reddit.com/r/ParlerWatch/comments/kmgtis/proudboys_not_down_with_proudgirls/
Not sure if directly linking Parler is ok here, so I won't, but you can find the account through the DailyDot article.
Comments there are full of women being like "Yes I agree with you" and saying traditional gender roles are good. Hard to tell whether its legitimate self-hating women or sockpuppets, either is distinctly possible.
Are Americans trained to hate gibberingly racist reactionary thought? I was under the impression it was quite the opposite
No, but they're trained to hate Nazis, and at least in the last few decades being openly racist had become taboo, too. Consider the trajectory of the Willie Horton ad under Bush I, then Bush II telling people not to do pogroms on Muslims in the wake of 9/11, then McCain cutting off an Islamophobic birther at a town hall, then back to "Mexicans are sending murders and rapists" with Trump.
Spot on. Shit is getting demonstrably worse.