not wanting to date trans women stems from y’all not viewing them as “real” women... so yes your “preference” is transphobic.— destiny (@MAM1SHAMPOO) July 1, 2020
If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it's time for some introspection.
I can answer this as a lesbian, so different perspective. I would totally date a pre-op trans woman. For me the liking of dick (which I fucking don’t) doesn’t have a bearing on a relationship.
Honestly, I think there’d have to be boundaries set regarding the physical aspect of the relationship and what is or isn’t kosher, because I wouldn’t want to be outside of my comfort zone, nor would they.
I think we need to talk about this more as a society because I remember the 2013 tumblr stuff another user mentioned, and that was before gay marriage was a thing even, and I saw it as a bridge too far and it was alienating tbh. Almost performative. I see their point now, but it is still not an appropriate framing of the issue. Especially if people might have seen the way trans people are portrayed in porn and have problematic notions about how those logistics work
I can answer this as a lesbian, so different perspective. I would totally date a pre-op trans woman. For me the liking of dick (which I fucking don’t) doesn’t have a bearing on a relationship.
Honestly, I think there’d have to be boundaries set regarding the physical aspect of the relationship and what is or isn’t kosher, because I wouldn’t want to be outside of my comfort zone, nor would they.
I think we need to talk about this more as a society because I remember the 2013 tumblr stuff another user mentioned, and that was before gay marriage was a thing even, and I saw it as a bridge too far and it was alienating tbh. Almost performative. I see their point now, but it is still not an appropriate framing of the issue. Especially if people might have seen the way trans people are portrayed in porn and have problematic notions about how those logistics work