You're not the universal authority on that. It MIGHT not fit the definition of abuse as an isolated incident, but if he's like this all the time, its sustained consistent emotional abuse without question. Not the kind that's legally actionable though! The kind that's going to fuck her up and that she will have to work out in therapy a decade from now.
Cool, well this isn’t abuse
You're not the universal authority on that. It MIGHT not fit the definition of abuse as an isolated incident, but if he's like this all the time, its sustained consistent emotional abuse without question. Not the kind that's legally actionable though! The kind that's going to fuck her up and that she will have to work out in therapy a decade from now.