Not every member of the ruling class requires fame and publicity (though some certainly do my-hero ) but I now believe they still require our existence to at the very least position themselves favorably compared to where we stand. Or crawl. Or lay.

Much of this is economic, of course. Having a labor surplus and the consequent "churn" keeps the working class precarious and struggling to survive, but there's a personal validation element to it, I believe.

I have some distant relations that are wealthy. I'm talking landlords with holdings up and down the state and beyond. They don't require fame (but I doubt they'd say no to it) but they do want poors like me around, often asking for me by name, for invitations to wine tastings, pompous restaurants, manorside dinner parties, and other ways to flex their wealth on people that don't get to experience that every day.

They won't give you money. Never. They will give you advice and keep insisting that if you don't like bland cold runny (but very expensive) food that it's because you have an undeveloped or unrefined palate. The crudest of such rich relatives actually told me, quote, "you can't appreciate (bland cold runny but every expensive food) because you've been eating shit all your life." Same attitude about wine. I have to agree with the collective consensus of wine snobs regarding the subtle accents of what year and what soil and what kind of wood the cask surely came from, or I'm an ignorant barbarian.

They want me to be an ignorant barbarian. They need that.

It isn't enough to be rich. Someone else has to be poor, and they have to see that difference to assure themselves of their secular Calvinist "elect" status, over and over again.

I think if most rich people lost access to poor people entirely, even if they were in no physical danger, it'd make them feel poor after a while and give them emotional distress.

  • UlyssesT [he/him]
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    9 months ago

    It's quite possible it was just prepared a rich asshole way where it was cold and slimy and didn't have to be. I've had dishes (even pizza) presented at fancy parties in ways that were rich asshole compliant and that usually means a lot of pomp and circumstance and performative richness to each ingredient at the expense of actually being pleasant to eat.

    • infuziSporg [e/em/eir]
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      9 months ago

      Ugh, I can imagine filthy-rich-people pizza.

      I need to make an addition to one of my truisms. Americans by and large don't eat food, they eat colors and shapes.... Rich people don't eat food, they eat class signifiers.

      • UlyssesT [he/him]
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        9 months ago

        Ugh, I can imagine filthy-rich-people pizza.

        Imagine a pizza, but with way too many toppings, and the toppings are aggressively trying to be not-for-poor-people. (CW: meat, dairy)

        spoiler

        Brie cheese smeared around Alaskan cod, truffles, Kobe beef (of course), and all of it cold and slimy together because for some reason rich assholes don't like hot food.

    • AbbysMuscles [she/her]
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      9 months ago

      It's quite possible it was just prepared a rich asshole way where it was cold and slimy and didn't have to be.

      I promise that Ethiopian food is fucking delicious. Spices like I've never tasted, and injera combines the convenience and versatility of tortillas with a perfect chewy/spongy texture. If you ever have a chance to stop by a restaurant please try it out! As with all "ethnic" foods, you'll likely find the best locations in an immigrant neighborhood of any random city.

      • UlyssesT [he/him]
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        9 months ago

        I believe you.

        Supporting what you said, it's a well-known bit of local lore that Mexican food tastes worse the more expensive any particular restaurant with it is around here.

        • AbbysMuscles [she/her]
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          9 months ago

          I feel like that's probably true anywhere with any Mexican food. Or Chinese food, for that matter

          • UlyssesT [he/him]
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            9 months ago

            If you want Vietnamese food, always look for the places with a number in the name. Always.